tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2494418227244664372.post240892128809920496..comments2023-11-28T05:16:52.307-06:00Comments on The Person I Always Wanted To Be: What The Fuck Is Wrong With ME??????????????????The Angry Squawhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18398822778177927614noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2494418227244664372.post-86213544317169092582012-01-30T20:53:11.198-06:002012-01-30T20:53:11.198-06:00p.s. go check out this blog... it might help... sh...p.s. go check out this blog... it might help... she's great!<br /><br />http://imarriedamoronandsurvived.blogspot.com/Sherrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11844785407011196401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2494418227244664372.post-74999174086703020112012-01-30T20:37:17.191-06:002012-01-30T20:37:17.191-06:00oh my dear sweet friend.... i am so sorry that you...oh my dear sweet friend.... i am so sorry that you are hurting so badly.. the reason you don't have a hateful and cold heart is because you are a good person... no matter what you will always be a good person... <br /><br />that last line in the comment by anony up there is perfect... THEY DESERVE ONE ANOTHER... you are the one that will come out the winner in this situation... i promise...<br /><br />time... time.... give it time... go through the motions of life for a bit and one day you'll notice that it's getting a bit easier... find comfort in your kids, in your friends, in those who truly love you...<br /><br />we are here... you know that... come see me! take a break from reality... really... don't over think it... make a plan and do it! xoxoSherrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11844785407011196401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2494418227244664372.post-72751464626218319942012-01-30T17:51:54.866-06:002012-01-30T17:51:54.866-06:00For what it's worth, I get it, and I'm sor...For what it's worth, I get it, and I'm sorry you're hurting.YMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01992923192182676427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2494418227244664372.post-7545372144207939262012-01-30T16:54:13.921-06:002012-01-30T16:54:13.921-06:00Birdie is so right. this must be the hardest thin...Birdie is so right. this must be the hardest thing you've ever gone through. go through. get through, be through. the only way to get through this awful pain is to go through it. Maybe your therapist can help you find a group of women to join. it will be a tremendous, validating support for you.nazelethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00711794777364747269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2494418227244664372.post-27323074340827958212012-01-30T16:52:00.788-06:002012-01-30T16:52:00.788-06:00Birdie is right. this is the hardest thing you ha...Birdie is right. this is the hardest thing you have ever gone through in your life. the only way to get through all this pain is to go through it. I agree with Birdie about a group. Maybe your therapist can help you to find a women's group. It will be a tremendous support.nazelethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00711794777364747269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2494418227244664372.post-9383296929180179112012-01-30T15:00:49.906-06:002012-01-30T15:00:49.906-06:00Separation and divorce is a terrible thing and tak...Separation and divorce is a terrible thing and takes years to get through emotionally. Is there a divorce recovery group in your area? At any rate, keep writing. It helped me a lot.Birdiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03479872783727855901noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2494418227244664372.post-2632503323921425652012-01-30T14:53:01.089-06:002012-01-30T14:53:01.089-06:00Squaw,
I feel your pain,I have walked in your shoe...Squaw,<br />I feel your pain,I have walked in your shoes. REALLY....21 years of busting my ass,2 daughters,and I was the one that finally left. In my case there was no friendship left,and I still find it hard to be civil.I could have have turned summersaults naked in the frontyard and I still would have been the bad guy. I beat myself up,wondering what I could have done different,to make things work...and WTF was wrong with me???? Please don't beat yourself up anymore...I did that for 4 years,thinking I was an awful person. And you know what????? I am ok now. I finally turned it over to God,and said,YOU show me,and I will follow. <br />Three months later a wonderful man entered my world totally unexpected. And he earned my trust and love. He treats me like a queen,and even puts up with my crappy moods,and all the baggage I bring from the past. I ended up loosing one of my daughters to my ex,because he is her drinking buddy,not a parent with rules. The other daughter,is going to nursing school,and is one of my best friends. The man that entered my life,is now my husband(which I said I would never do again,if I could get out of the last marriage) we will be married 2 years in Aug and together 3yrs. So, there is hope..please don't think there isn't!!! I have been reading your blog,since you started writing and you are one of those I would love to meet in person.<br />I know I have rambled on...but I just wanted to reach out and let you know...THERE ISN'T A DAMN THING WRONG WITH YOU!!!! You tried to help someone that you thought was a friend,and THEY are wrong. I have had a hard time realizing there are bad people in this world,and I still believe there are good people out there too. Hold your head high..YOU did the RIGHT thing,not everyone is like you,or has a good heart. I hope you keep this in mind...YOU are a GOOD person..FUCK them,they deserve each other!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2494418227244664372.post-36542465748170142622012-01-30T14:44:44.585-06:002012-01-30T14:44:44.585-06:00I wish I could take away your pain....:( Work thro...I wish I could take away your pain....:( Work through it though, and it WILL lessen. One day at a time....Kathleen...https://www.blogger.com/profile/06586887165100841363noreply@blogger.com